My husband is in the Army, currently away for predeployment training. He comes home soon for a few days, then leaves to go overseas for a year (I am being intentionally non-specific for operational security). We have two sons, 4 and 20 months. The idea of the next year without my husband is, admittedly, very tough. The idea of how much our boys will grow while he’s gone, how much they will miss him, is even worse. But we will make it through this, we will overcome.
I’ve been a Bon Jovi fan for as long as I can remember. Being from New Jersey, I think it is inbred. I’ve seen them in concert before and they are amazing. March 1st is the day my husband leaves us to go to his pre-mobilization site. I expect it to be a truly horrible day. Seeing Bon Jovi might make it a little less sad.
]]>My mom is my hero, she had me at age 24 (she turns 50 in a few weeks!), at the time her and my dad were not married, and my dad had decided he wasn’t ready for a child yet and left the picture. So my mom decided she was going to raise me alone although she didn’t have a ton of support (her mom and dad were both older and already in the nursing home). 3 months after I was born my grandpa (my mom’s dad) passed away. I can’t imagine what a hard time that had to have been for my mom, but she never talks about it as if it was a tough time, she would never let us kids see her sad or upset about anything.
Fast forward to 26 years later, my dad is now her loving husband of 24 years (he came back into the picture around my first birthday) and they have 4 children together. Nothing would make my mom happier than an autographed Bon Jovi poster – it would make a great 50th birthday present 🙂 (even when I was in New Jersey a few months ago for work she begged me to drive an hour each way to his house just so I could get a picture of it for her, unfortunately I couldn’t). So, I am submitting a time in my mom’s life that I know was not easy for her, but she overcame it all and has a great family that loves her so much, and I hope her story gets picked!
]]>That little girl is now a beautiful 10 year old with a smile that melts your heart. I continue to raise my 4 daughters solely on my own. For twenty years, I have had a great employer that is family friendly. I have also had the moral support of wonderful family and friends along the way. Against the odds, I have provided a very stable, happy upbringing for my girls.
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